language of love

quality time.

perhaps that's why it irks me when people gets stingy with time. what does 'no time' mean? it translates to me as 'sorry, you are not important enough to take up an hour of my life at this moment cos watching tv/youtubing/reading a book/chilling/stoning is much more important than you.' to have no time in a week or so is understandable, but to have no time in months? gee. and when mentioned in a rush, the words of encouragement seem so generic, and almost forced and insincere.

i think .. someone (a speaker of some sort) once said - the way you determine your priorities define you as a person, and i guess a person who fails to look beyond himself can only go as far as where his own strength can bring him to.

what happened to your love language?